Your Child’s Teacher Does NOT Want That!

Ideas for Teacher Appreciation Week from an actual teacher!

Just because a gift looks good does not mean it’s not a Pinterest FAIL!

Written By: Natalie Jean Hutchings

I get the unique experience of teaching at the same school my son attends.  I work in the middle school setting, so not only do I get to hear EVERYTHING that is going on from the hallway conversations, but any gossip that I might have missed out during the day, I get the 4-1-1 on the car ride home. Today’s topic was Teacher Appreciation Week.  My son Alex and his friends are under the assumption that teachers actually WANT Pinterest-homemade gifts.  He went as far to argue with me that it’s “thoughtful,” and his teachers would love something he personally made.  While for a whopping 2 seconds I thought this was sweet and cute that he wanted to make his teachers a gift, I soon realized I was doing my child and teachers everywhere a disservice by not setting him straight!  So here we go…

 

A THOUGHTFUL gift is an item that the person you are gifting to would actually want.  I used the following example: if his sister gave him a paper doll for his birthday, would he appreciate it?  The hours she spent making the interchangeable outfits, the shoes and awesome doll accessories would truly mean nothing because he has no need or want for a paper doll.  Yes, she loves her brother, but the paper doll gift is not a true reflection of her brother’s interests.  Therefore, the gift does not show her true appreciation for Alex and he would never use the gift.

I’m not saying that homemade gifts are out of the question.  I’m simply suggesting to not go Pinterest-crazy.  Instead give a gift that will make your child’s teacher feel like you appreciate the hard work and dedication the job requires.  As a teacher, my favorite gifts are notes from parents (or kids) attached to a giant chocolate bar.  Keep it simple, and keep it personal!  Here are a few more ideas for every budget (and craft-handicapped parents as well).

FREE GIFT:

FREE GIFT:

A note from a parent and/or student.

I have an entire file devoted to student, parent and administration letters.  On those days where I need a pick me up, I break out my positive file, and I read, read, read.  One of my first years teaching, I had a classroom mom that created the “WE LOVE YOU” folder for me.  She had parents and students write me letters, and she put everything together in a brightly colored folder.  I had never thought of the idea before, but it’s genius.  Everyone has days where we feel unloved and under-appreciated.  This folder is a real pick-me-up.  And I must admit, it might take me a week to grade a class set of essays, but I can make it through my folder in a day.

 

LESS EXPENSIVE GIFT:

CHOCOLATE!

Enough said.  Unless your child’s teacher has dietary needs that forbid him/her from eating chocolate, then a simple candy bar with a “You are Sweet” on it is perfect.  Chocolate can be consumed at any time of day and is a simple reminder of the love you have for your child’s teacher.

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Hand Sanitizer

Kids are dirty.  I have seen some cute little sayings for Hand Sanitizer that could easily be added to the bottle, to spruce it up for teacher appreciation week.  “Hands down, you are the best teacher”,  “Germs and Jesus are everywhere, so say your prayers and wash your hands”.  For a Germ-X bottle: “You are an eXcellent teacher”

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STICKY NOTES, PENS, WHITE BOARD MARKERS, SHARPIES

It seems at the end of every year I am buying more sticky notes, pens, sharpies and white board markers. It is nice to receive the occasional restock of supplies.

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BUDGET BREAKER GIFTS:

Gift Cards

Universally, I feel that the gift card is probably your safest bet for a gift.  Whether, you are gifting to your 13 year old son, your crazy mother-in-law or your child’s favorite teacher, gift cards are the way to go.  However, not everyone can afford to give a gift card to 7 different teachers.  Trust me, with a son in middle school I understand.

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Bottom line: 

Teachers do not expect gifts for teacher’s appreciation.  However, I know as parents we want to show our support and appreciation for everything they do. If you are going to spend money on a gift for anyone, not just a beloved teacher, make sure it is a gift that is THOUGHTFUL and not a Pinterest win.  Save the $5.oo you would spend on a glass painted mason jar and give your child’s teacher a pack of pens or a $5.oo gift card to Target.  Besides what teacher would want to display a glass jar in a room full of kids.

Gift smart people!

 

Nat Hello all, I am Natalie Hutchings(34), but most people call me Nat.  I am a mother to the most wonderful son on Earth (Alex – 13) and the most endearing daughter in the Universe (Olivia Jean – 5).  My husband, Allen, and I have been together since July 9, 2005 and he is my rock, my co-pilot, my refuge. I have worked for the Hillsborough County Education system since 2004.  I have taught all grades K-8.  Our household is filled will laughter and love.  We are loud, opinionated and extremely competitive. But most importantly, we are there for each other.  My husband and I believe a strong education is the key to happiness and Sundays belong to the church and golf course.   WE ARE THE HUTCHINGS!

 

My Breastfeeding Journey…

 By Jennifer Stroble

At some point in raising their child, every parent has wished they came with a manual. Don’t try to deny it. The next best thing to a manual is a tribe or support system. The kind of people that won’t judge you for wanting wine at 10:00 am, because your child cried for two hours after you gave him the wrong colored cup at lunch time. These type of people are there to lift your spirits during troubling times, and generally make your life more enjoyable.

I found my tribe, also known as my mom’s group; when my oldest son, Keagan, was just shy of a year old. They have since kept me sane in times I thought I needed to go to a loony bin. I needed them most when Oliver, my last baby was born in September. That’s when all hell broke loose in my life.

Seven months ago, I had no idea what  was in store for my son and I. We endured a whirlwind of ups and downs. We’ve overcome jaundice, torticollis, and hospitalization for bronchiolitis. Although, nothing will compare to my current struggle: breastfeeding.

Throughout my entire pregnancy I told myself, and anyone who’d listen, that I’d breastfeed exclusively for a minimum of one year. My breastfeeding journey with his older brother came to a halt after three weeks due to illness and a less than ideal support system. I was determined to have better success this time around at providing my son’s nutrition, and having those special bonding moments with him.

My inner circle of friends tried to prepare me for my journey ahead. They tried to teach me that there would be many struggles, and that breastfeeding wasn’t going to be easy. It’s something you have to constantly work towards, but in the end would be worth every frustration. Some mothers have struggles latching or dealing with reflux, forceful letdowns, clogged milk ducts, and more. Not to mention, the sleepless nights and insatiable hunger.

However, none of them could prepare me for what I was about to withstand.

Oliver was born September 17th, 2015. Those first few moments were a blur. I remember crying from overwhelming amount of joy that he was here, and being in pure bliss with my baby boy. By the time I was discharged from the hospital 36 hours later, those tears had turned dark. I was beyond sleep deprived because my sleep cycle only occurred once every 30 minutes, if I was lucky. Trying to feed my child was becoming a nightmare the more I tried.

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Oliver was miserable. He’d cry nonstop, nothing would calm him.  I was told by the doctor that he may have a tongue tie and to get it evaluated. I found myself at Dr. Sierra’s office, in Tampa,  the following day for a free consultation. As it would turn out, he had the “most obvious” lip AND tongue tie that Dr. Sierra had ever seen. He encouraged me to feed him right after the lip and tongue tie revision, to help comfort him. I noticed a difference almost immediately. It no longer hurt as badly to feed him, and a weight had been lifted.

I battled with everything my friends warned me about: the sleepless nights, the hunger, the never ending nursing sessions and more. One thing nobody had warned me about though, was food intolerance and other food sensitivities while breastfeeding. If I ate something that the baby didn’t digest well, how would I know? Would he grow horns? Cry like he’s dying? Would he bleed? Get rashes? I had no clue. I had limited knowledge with food intolerance.

At six weeks old, I was proud to have made it that long, still being his source of nutrition. After all, it was an important milestone. Most mothers give up within the first six weeks. In that time though, Oliver had always had diarrhea, and it was almost always green. It would range from neon, to ninja turtle green. He was severely moody, spitting up, gassy, and just over all unpleasant. The doctors suggested I go dairy free.

Goodbye, ice cream. Farewell, cheese. See you later, yogurt. Smell you later, baked goods.

I found myself crying during most feeding sessions. After all, it was my milk that made his tummy so upset. I was doing my best, but it just didn’t feel good enough at that moment. His pediatrician and the lactation consultants at Baby Café, said it could take upwards of another six weeks before I saw a drastic improvement in his stools and overall attitude.

As time went by, I was second guessing myself more, and more. I’d think to myself, am I eating the wrong stuff? Am I over-thinking his poop? Could there be another cause? I was feeling so out of my element. At his three month check-up, they still found microscopic traces of blood in his diarrhea. I was told to eliminate soy as well as dairy. The world of processed foods had instantly vanished. No more late night munchies of Oreos and milk, or quick take out from our favorite fast food joint. Convenience was a luxury, and I no longer had it.

I went another six weeks of trial and error. At this point, Ollie is now 4½ months old. I had become what I would consider a master at examining infant poop. This is not a title I’d want on my resume. My silver lining was that he was noticeably happier on a day to day basis. Other than his runny number twos, he was a perfectly happy and healthy baby. He was gaining a slow but steady amount of weight, which was the only thing keeping the doctors (and myself) happy.

I hit a rock wall, as I knew there was still something wrong with my baby.  I was begging and pleading for answers. No one could tell me why he had diarrhea. I was fed up with his pediatrician. They told me to start solids and/or formula, even though I told them I want to exclusively feed him myself, and those were not currently an option for me. I begged for a GI specialist referral. I was referred to Dr. Izizarry in Brandon. She gave me three options: start solids, start a total elimination diet, or give formula.

Friends and family thought I was nuts. Who in their right mind would give up everything just to breastfeed their child? They tried to comfort me, and continue to support my decisions regardless of what I chose. After crying for what felt like forever, I went home and did my research on what foods I could do during a total elimination diet. I was determined to reach my goal, and to never give up. In the end, I felt that if I couldn’t make things right within my diet, how was a container of formula supposed to help? My milk was made especially for him.

I went approximately another six weeks slowly introducing one thing after another back into his diet. I hit numerous stand still periods, but continued forward. I brought back eggs, nuts, and wheat into my diet aside from my “safe” proteins and produce.

I saw only one improvement. He went from 10+ poops a day, to 3-5 a day.

I cried. I felt lost. I had given up everything, living off of lamb and veggies. Everyone around me could tell I was unraveling and continued to push formula on me. I knew they all had very good intentions, but I still resisted.

Last month, it came back that his older brother Keagan had mild allergies to cow’s milk, peanuts, eggs, and wheat. I decided that since we were still struggling to find the culprit for his digestion issues, that we’d resume a normal diet and only avoid his brother’s allergies, with the exception of soy.

I’m happy to announce, that even though I’m still clueless as to what has been causing mayhem on my baby’s belly, he’s doing much better. He’s gone roughly a month free of wheat, peanuts, eggs, dairy and soy. He has had normal bowel movements in this time frame, as well.

Due to my determination, and overly supportive group of friends, I’ve managed to stay on track. There’s now a light at the end of my tunnel, and I hope to make my goal of one year.
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If I had struggled in silence, I likely wouldn’t have made it to my first six week milestone, let alone my six month milestone. Take it from me, find your support system to carry you through your struggles and keep you sane. I’ve had a large network of like-minded mothers to guide me through my journey thus far, and family to comfort me in moments I wanted to give up. Every hard decision I’ve made in the last six months, has been entirely worth it.

 

Jennifer Stroble.jpg I’m Jennifer, a 25 year old mother of two amazing boys. Keagan is four years old, and Oliver will be one in September. I’ve been married five years now, and have grown up in the Brandon area. I am a sarcastic, laid back stay-at-home parent with a hectic lifestyle catering to my children and two rambunctious dogs. Each day I’m simply trying to survive the never-ending ride that is parenthood. 

 

 

It takes a village.

By: Melissa Beckley

I know that many of us have heard this over and over before, but it is so true! I am a wife to a recently retired coastie, so we’ve made our fair share of moves and the closest we’ve been to family during my husband’s career was about 5 hours from his family and 9 from mine, needless to say we didn’t get to visit as much as we wanted. Because of this, I have found the truth and importance behind the “It takes a village statement.” This is exactly why I am a huge fan of Mom’s groups!

I have 5 children with a HUGE age range, my oldest is 13 and my youngest is 10 months old. I can tell you I would not have survived without my momma friends! Whether you are near family or not it’s so important to get plugged in with “your people, or village(AKA mom groups),” these mommas have either been there, done that or are going through what you are right at that moment. They can either help guide you, cry along side you, drink insane amounts of wine with you and even cheer you on.

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Whether we lived in California, Alabama, Michigan, Louisiana or Florida, the one thing that remained a constant, was my support system in a local mom’s group. They helped encourage me in my journeys as a wife, mother and photographer.

I encourage all moms to join some sort of mom’s group. Whether you need someone to pour your heart out to, find out what events are going on this weekend or make a play date for your kids, to keep them busy and give you a few minutes peace, it’s so important to join that village.

untitled-279 copyI’m Melissa, wife to a handsome guy and momma to 5 crazy kids (ages 10 months to 13 years). I am a birth, newborn and baby photographer and I love living in Florida!